I asked William what he thought and he laid down and watched the shifter go through its paces. He said there was some little slop and the front bushing needs to be replace and I need to install the rear coupler, but he said it was getting its full travel. He was confused because he said that 1st and reverse are the same gear they just turn the other way. I have no idea. So its only popping out in first and the reverse seems just as strong and fine as can be.
He said Zen might know because he's dealt with the selector forks in there a time a two, but William didn't really know. He also said it was a 6 rib (I had never counted and I didn't get down there and confirm it, but that seems to be a later model trans than what came in it.)
I've still got to put the coupler in, but I'm not really wanting to replace he trans just yet... ugh...
***EDIT*** after doing some reading, I think mine was supposed to come with a 5 rib instead of the 3, which means he might have seen a whole bunch of ribs and thought it was a 6. I'll double check tomorrow if I get a chance.