As we return to the saga,  Tuesday,  Asked my kid to get the dash board open and figure out what relay worked the fuel pump.  Reminded him Wed,  He got to it Thursday, so plastic around steering wheel is off.  I get home about 8pm .  Because the car was working from my skilled talent in wire wiggling,  I wanted to try to get it not to work. .  I  pulled off the 2 relays under there but the car still ran.  I began think it is not the Fuel pump. 
There was a thick wire under the dash that was wrapped with black electrical tape.  The tape was all tacky and dried and the thick wire inside was probably barely making contact.  Not sure this was the deal but cinched it up and used my favorite duct tape. 

I've never liked black electrical tape .  it never seems to hold up in a car.   Duct tape or wire nuts works so much  better.   So the Honda is gone.  for now....  SC