Zen,
The scenario that you describe has been my experience with Lamar at American Foriegn the past 6 years. Parts are as good or better quality than most online sources, his prices are typically the same or lower than online and he has no shipping charges as long as you can wait on his normal delivery schedule.
Lamar is a great guy and he just will not stock the items he has had poor quality issues with in the past. He will order them for you, but will explain fully before that they are crap and you will not be able to return them should they be of poor quality. I always ask him if he has had a lot of returns of this or that and he has always been straight with me.
KC