Well the new relay is here, and oddly enough when I plug it in I can't switch high/low beams, the switch on the steering column makes no 'click'. Trade it out for Rick's relay and it works perfectly. I emailed CIP to see if maybe I just got a bum relay.

Well the diagrams look the same to me, but here they are side by side in case you see something I don't. The pinouts are indeed the same. I tapped it while it was plugged in and still no switching.

At the very least, my old relay still works, I just cleaned off the rusty contacts so I can return yours probably tomorrow since I'll be coming up to get my battery cover too.